PLAY.

Saint Selah, NYC leather domme, on her knees wearing black leather outfit, red lipstick, curly brown hair and fishnets, looking behind her shoulder at you

My relationship with every submissive and the play we share is extremely personal. That being said, if you asked Me what My favorite sessions involve, it would probably be one of these activities:

Leather Fetish | Tease and Denial | Taboo Fantasy | Sensation Play | Religious and Spiritual Play | Gender Play

These are a few of My favorite things…

More things I love:

Ageplay (Mommy/Daddy) | Anal Training | Body Worship | Bondage + Forced Meditation | Caning | CBT/Genital Torture/Ballbusting | CEI | Chastity and Keyholding | CNC | Corporal Punishment, OTK, Impact Play | Denied/Ruined/Forced Orgasms | Edging | Erotic Manipulation | Findom | Fisting | Force Fantasy | Foot Worship | Gender Exploration + Uplifting Sissyfication | Golden, Ruby, FTT | Humiliation and Degradation | Hypnosis + Mind Control | JOI | Latex, + Nylon Fetish | Medfet | Mummification | Needles and Scalpels | Psychological Edgeplay | Queer Cuckolding | Scent Play | Smothering | SPH | Sploshing/WAM

I love playing with inexperienced perverts just as much as I love playing with seasoned perverts. I love playing with women, queer and trans people, disabled folks, and couples. I love emotionally uplifting domination and degrading domination equally.

If you are interested in an activity not mentioned in My extensive list below, I may still do it with you– read about Sponsorship Opportunities for new skills. If you still don’t see your play interests there, you may ask Me about it in your application.

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My specialty:

St. Selah, NYC religious fetishist and dominatrix, smiles while licking a rosary. She has tooth gap and wears red lipstick

Religious Play, Sacrilege, and Blasphemy

Forced conversion fantasies. Piss baptisms. Bathing My feet in perfume. Edging that ends in desecrating your favorite scripture. Prayers written for Selah. I’ve facilitated countless fucked up fantasies surrounding religion and spirituality. Why am I so goddamn into Religious Play? Growing up Southern Baptist in the Bible Belt, religion was non-consensually imposed on Me at an early age. In My home, questions about God were not allowed, and as a result, fear about My moral future was abundant. In adulthood, I developed My own spiritual beliefs, and I also learned that playing with fear makes Me horny. If you grew up practicing any religion, perhaps you still carry that lingering, primitive fear regarding your fate and the status of your goodness. Perhaps you left your religion long ago and never found something that satisfies your need for ritual and routine. I’ve heard that described as the God-sized hole, and I am adept at filling them– physically and emotionally.

This play comes in all sorts of flavors and intensities- you’ve probably already experienced it if you have ever worshipped a beautiful woman’s legs, watched Catholic schoolgirl porn, or simply called a Domme “Goddess.” When I first joined kink spaces, I was drawn to scenes of explicit sacrilege. While I still love these, some of My favorite religious and spiritual scenes are softer; they are rooted in earnest love for a Higher Power, greater than even Me. These days, I consider Myself a collared submissive to God– not the one I grew up with, but something else I will be in relation with for the rest of My life. I pray before every session to be the best Domme I can be for you, and I am not afraid of incorporating genuine aspects of your (current or former) spiritual beliefs into our play. Let Me shepherd you into one of My favorite fetishes. Perhaps you’ll find it healing, but it’s also okay to just have fun.

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Generally, I prioritize longer sessions, and will advocate for increasing the intensity of our play over the course of multiple encounters. Trust goes both ways. I abide by the principles of RACK– Risk Aware Consensual Kink. I would much prefer to over-negotiate with you, especially during our first sessions together, than under-negotiate. As an expert in play and sexual health, I promise to inform you of all risks involved with whatever play we engage in. That being said– by working with Me, you also agree to advocate for yourself, and you accept responsibility for your own desires and the risks involved. I am your Dominant Facilitator, but our experience together is co-created.

RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

SELAH’S LIMITS

  • I do not drink alcohol, smoke, or partake in drugs of any kind. If you are the gifting kind, please do not bring alcohol. You are welcome to drink in moderation on a date or, depending on our play agenda, in session (….I love intox play as a top). If you arrive too inebriated to play, I will end our session with no refund, and do My best to get you home safely while also ensuring My own safety.

  • I do not participate in race play, and I do not entertain slave/Master terminology or cop role play, even in fantasy (However I will happily restrain you with metal cuffs and chains).

  • I do not switch power exchange roles.

  • I do not perform Roman Showers or wrestling sessions.